My biggest pet peeve is people that chew
loudly on what they are eating when they are near me. Many people are known to
do this particular action of chewing loudly on their food. This common action usually
occurs in any place that contain food. The sound of people loudly gnawing on
their food drives me crazy because I find the sound of this the most annoying
sound in the world. Although this is a common pet peeve with many people, I do
not think it could possibly ever bother anyone else as much as it bothers me.
During meals whether it is breakfast, lunch,
or dinner when I am associating with people there are always a ton of people
that chew on their food loudly. I often find it extremely hard to not
concentrate on the sound of people eating because it’s like it’s the only sound
that you can hear wherever you are. I find it to be a lot more irritating when
people are not only chewing loudly, but also the sight of them chewing with
their mouth open. The final thing that gets on my nerves when people eat loudly
is when they are really close to you chewing loudly on their food so it makes
it a million times louder.
Not only is it extremely
annoying, it can also be frustrating at the same time. It can be frustrating in
a way because there is not much you can really do in the situation. Implying
that they are being loud would work if there easy to catch the hint which in
most cases, people do not realize it unless you tell them that. If in which
case, they do not catch the hint you are sending them, then its best to just
move on and try hardest to not concentrate on it and completely ignore it no
matter how hard it might be to just ignore it. This is the best way to react in
a case like that because otherwise just saying something about it might be rude
and hurt their feelings.
Unlike pet peeves such as
phrases, saying, or a certain type of action that is popular and meant to be
spread around, this pet peeve did not just originate from somewhere specific.
This pet peeve is just a natural habit of others that do it but just don’t
really think about it. It is definitely not something that was purposely done
because others thought the idea or concept is cool. In fact, it is commonly
considered annoying to not just me, but many other people that also get annoyed
by this certain action.
Implying is definitely the best way to handle the situation if you get
very irritated by the sound of chewing. Implying it lets you avoid being so
direct with the person who is annoying you. The reason you do not want to be so
direct about it is because being direct can make others think that they just
annoy you. Implying is the overall better thing to do in any situation where a
person is bothering you because most times people understand and don’t get
offended by it because it is a lot more respectful to be less direct about
something in particular. In the certain situation of somebody eating loudly,
you could imply that they are doing so by simply kind of casually making your
distance away from them.

I understand your pain, my whole family chews there food so loud and with their mouth's open at that. I actually have to stay in my room listening to my music when ever im home. DX
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more with what you wrote! I hate hearing the sound of people eating loudly near me, it's so uncomfortable and gross. You explained this pet peeve very nicely. well done! - Matthew Terwilliger
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